May I....doing and giving are not the same ...we tend to assume things ...we tend to tolerate things ...it clarifies responsibility that check-list doesn't ...clear structure to talk about needs, wishes and limits ...we like to be surprised in a safe space. ...it helps to confront self with why you do what you do? ...it brings you closer with your partner – promise! ...it brings you closer with yourself ...it brings you to your sub space. ...it brings you closer to awakening